and...guy update

"Well, we could do the standard coffee if you are into that sort of thing. I also have some sticks in my backyard that I could fashion into a campfire although my house is a sad story to look at in its current state. I have on my to do list to build a chicken coop so that is an option. We could always do some arts and crafts too. Rummage saling if there are any, or a trip to a thrift store are good options."

really? build a chicken coop? this came last night as i was in the throes of being upset about the job situation. chicken coops and rummage saling were the last things i wanted to hear. also campfire. i hate campfires. i know i'm probably the only one, but i do. smoke gets in my eyes (and the wind follows me if i move), the nights are always too cold (so either my butt or my face freezes), and while a fire smells nice, afterwards one's clothes and hair stink. i went to bed afraid that he would think i was boring for just wanting to do coffee, but knowing there was no way i was doing anything else.
it helped to sleep it off. not knowing how much of this was him kidding, i just decided to forget the rest. maybe someday i can give in and try the other things, but for right now, i don't know if this will go past coffee, so there's no sense worrying about it.