dear all people who i tell i want to find someone to set me up with (and those i don't ask but find someone anyway - all 2 or 3 of them),

please understand, that while i'm a geek, that doesn't necessarily mean i want a geek. especially because the geeks that get found are generally considerably geekier than i am. do i want someone intelligent? yes. do i want someone with Biblical knowledge and wisdom? yes. do i want someone who likes 'lotr'? it would be nice, but i honestly don't care. i'm used to being on my own in the 'lotr' world. would i like someone who reads? yes. but if i had to choose one or the other, i'd choose a guy who likes sports. while my sister may have said she didn't want to be a sports widow because she was a sports orphan, which i understand, sports are the way i know how to relate to guys, which is also understandable. no, i don't want a dumb jock. but plenty of guys are intelligent, don't read, and like sports. let's broaden our spectrum of prospects and start looking there for me. k?