More counselingness

Third time we meet:

"sounds like we need to get you out of your rigidity"   

 

Also, "It sounds like your brain has just decided things and you go with it." [With things like "Have you ever looked into what you'd need to do to live in Europe? You just assume it's not possible, so you haven't even googled?" "Have you asked your neurologist if there are anxiety meds that would work with your epilepsy meds? No? You just assume there aren't any?" "So of ALL the women in the world, you've just decided that you couldn't live with any of them?" and so on]