small group from the new church

i was excited to go on sunday, but came back feeling a tad disappointed. the people were nice and seem knowledgeable Scripturally, but i felt like something was lacking. it was very quiet, for one thing, which is fine, but i was wanting some good spiritual discussions and it felt like they were pulling teeth to get people to talk. no, i didn't do any talking, but i was still trying to figure out how this works. we had lunch together, which was nice, then sat and talked about the sermon. but it seemed lifeless. 'i liked when he said...' 'i hadn't thought of...before.' there was no discussion happening. everything was just answered with a 'mm.' i need to give it a few more tries, i suppose.