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Sunday, January 09, 2011

Enchanted thought

As I've said before, “Enchanted” always depresses me. I love the movie, I do, but I always come away from it with the heart-breaking realization that fairy tales don’t come true. The Disney life we’ve been fed since we were little princesses just plain isn’t reality. Not only that, but in real life, there is no Patrick Dempsey to make up for it. At least when Giselle learned that life isn’t a fairy tale, she had something better. My real life, not so much. I don’t get a Robert. So “Enchanted” makes me sad.

But this time I figured it out.
I don’t need a Robert. I am Robert. He’s practical. He doesn’t believe in lovey-dovey love. He doesn’t believe in happiness. He has resigned himself to getting by. And then he finds Giselle, who opens his eyes to happiness, lightheartedness, and romance. That’s what I need. I need someone who will make me believe in those things again. And if there's hope for Robert, there's hope for me.
So this time I did not get sad when watching it. No, I will never have a Robert. But that’s okay. That’s not what I need anyway. I need a Giselle.

4 Comments:

Blogger melilotnfosco said...

and i mean that in the straightest way possible

Sunday, January 9, 2011 at 2:56:00 PM CST  
Blogger chelleybutton said...

hehehe, i was gonna say... ;)

but when i do pray for you about this (sorry, but i don't pray nearly as often as i should -- in general, not just for you!), i pray for that stuff :)

Sunday, January 9, 2011 at 3:29:00 PM CST  
Blogger hobbitsister said...

i think you're right. you do need a giselle.
in the straightest way possible.

Monday, January 10, 2011 at 5:26:00 PM CST  
Blogger HonorMommy said...

Wow Mel...great insight.

Friday, January 14, 2011 at 11:19:00 PM CST  

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